Week 3 Reading Diary B- Respect and Honor

I think my page numbers are slightly different from those presented in the reading schedule, however, this week I finished Narayan’s modern version of the Ramayana. Although I realize that what I read was a much shortened version of the original epic, I feel as though I was taken along every twist and turn in Rama’s journey. Ultimately, the reader finishes with a great sense of pride in Rama’s purpose and his faithfulness in the execution of his mission.

One theme that I noticed throughout the book, however particularly towards the end, was respect for one’s opponents. One example is when Rama defeats Vali. As Vali is dying, the book recounts his wonder at the idea of being killed. He can’t even begin to fathom the greatness of the one who ended his life. In is dying breaths he shares a dialogue with Rama, so that he might understand who has killed him and what his motives are. By the end of their conversation, Vali essentially considers it an honor to have been killed by Rama.

Fight between Rama and Ravana

between the 16th and 19th century, Author: Unknown, Source: Wikimedia 

This type of thing happens again between Rama and Ravana in the ultimate and final battle. Rama gives Ravana a type of "break" in the middle of their battle to essentially recollect himself. This mercy was given to his enemy out of respect and because of Rama's own honor. The battle also recounts Ravana's amazement towards Rama towards the end of the battle. This is interesting because he has tremendous respect for Rama, yet also wants to kill him with every fiber of his being. In the end of their battle, when Ravana is defeated, Rama is concerned that he had shot him in the back. Apparently, shooting someone while they are turning away is very dishonorable. Instead of celebrating the destruction of evil, Rama is more concerned about winning in an honorable way.

The honor code that is maintained by Rama, and the respect he has towards others despite the many ways they have wronged him is incomparable. The respect he has for his step-mother is another example of this. In the end, Rama asks that his father forgive her for the terrible wrong she did taking away Rama's crown. This type of forgiveness is incredibly honorable, in my opinion. It is these virtues of respect and honor that make Rama a true hero. Sure, he has strength and capabilities, but it is willingness to do the right thing (even when the wrong thing seems so right) that take him to the next level and make him epic.